Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Friendsgiving

Ever notice how on sitcoms about a group of friends, they are always together for the holidays? Throughout the shows we always get to meet the characters’ family members but are we to believe these people just don’t make the effort to go home for the holidays, ever? In How I Met Your Mother it is more believable, as a few of the characters are from different parts of the country (and Canada) but what about in Friends?  We know their families just live in Queens and Long Island.  They always seem like they are having so much fun hanging out with their friends at the holidays.  I enjoy going home to see my family a lot at the holidays, but I decided I am jealous of those sitcoms and I want to have Thanksgiving with my friends.  That is why this year I decided to host our inaugural Friendsgiving.

The idea was pretty simple; we had friends over for a full Thanksgiving meal.  Ryan was excited to make his own turkey, and people brought mashed potatoes & gravy, green bean casserole, pumpkin pies, stuffing and deviled eggs.  There were nine of us total, which is a little bit tight for our little house – but I am pretty creative when it comes to these things.  I brought in our beer pong table and set it up with all of the patio chairs in the kitchen and moved our kitchen two-top to the living room behind the couch.  The kitchen could seat six and the other table two, so I figured I would just do what I do half the time anyway and eat standing up at the breakfast bar. Ryan did not think it was very classy to have people sit on the patio furniture, but what the hell do I care.  People sit on it when it’s outside, what’s the difference?    I didn’t end up having to stand though because the guys gathered in the room with football on.  All four of the guys crowded around our little two-top bar table so they could eat and watch. 


It is hard to put a measure on how much wine I drank because we were all sharing multiple bottles, but if I had to guess I would say 2.5 in total…thankfully there was plenty of food to soak it up J

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Insomnia

Two isolated weeknights in the last week I have suffered from insomnia.  This happens to me occasionally, although usually not so close together.  I blame my recent scaredy-cat-ness.  There has been a bit of a crime wave in the mile radius of our house in the last few weeks (thankfully it has not leaked to our cozy little subdivision but it’s hauntingly close).  Last week I could blame it on the Halloween movies.  This week I don’t know what to say.  I go to bed within the same hour every night and get up at the same time every morning.  But last night…it was like my head and my house were plotting against me.  Every single noise that you could imagine was forming an awful orchestra in my head.  The ticking of the many clocks (my betrothed does not believe that these can bother me as much as they do) in the house, random rumblings in my stomach, the fridge…which I am sure is haunted and it’s random knocking noise, and last night new sounds creaking from the attic.  I fell asleep and woke up at least ten different times.  I turned on my faithful Friends DVD for background noise and fell asleep (ironically it was an episode where Chandler suffers insomnia....), only to wake up 15 minutes later because Ryan wasn’t in bed. He was just peeing. I have a freak problem here.  I eventually moved to the guest room and shut the door, away from the snoring, the ticking clocks, the creaking, the dripping in our bathroom, and a silent bliss came over me.  Too bad I waited until after 2AM to do that.  Thank goodness for caffeine, that’s all I have to say about that!